
July 24th marks International Self-Care Day, a reminder that caring for ourselves isn’t always something reserved for vacations, special occasions, or the rare day when our to-do list is finally complete. When many people hear the term self-care, they think of spa days, bubble baths, or indulgent treats. While those things can certainly be enjoyable, self-care is often much simpler.
At its heart, self-care means paying attention to your needs and making choices that support your overall well-being. Sometimes that looks like taking a break. Sometimes it looks like getting outside for a walk, calling a friend, preparing a nourishing meal, or allowing yourself a few quiet moments before moving on to the next task.
Self-care isn’t about doing more. Often, it’s about creating small moments that help you feel more grounded, connected, and supported throughout your day. It is viewed as a way to manage health and well-being, involving behaviours that contribute to factors of overall wellness (Riegel et al., 2024).
Many people assume self-care needs to take a lot of time to make a difference. In reality, some of the most meaningful practices are the ones that fit naturally into everyday life.
Small moments of self-care can help us slow down, reconnect with ourselves, and create space for what matters most. Over time, these moments can contribute to greater emotional well-being, improved resilience, and a stronger sense of balance. Research has shown that self-care contributes to coping with life’s challenges and enhancing mental health outcomes (Riegel et al., 2024). Self-care behaviours can include, but are not limited to, prioritizing sleep, engaging in physical activity, nurturing interpersonal connections, and practicing relaxation techniques, all of which can support improved coping skills. Importantly, self-care does not need to involve significant or intensive changes. Rather, small, intentional, and mindful actions can contribute to long-term well-being and help maintain mental health over time.
Rather than asking, “How can I completely recharge today?”, it can be helpful to ask, “What’s one small thing I can do for myself right now?”
Give yourself permission to pause throughout the day. Even a few minutes to step outside, stretch, or enjoy a cup of coffee without multitasking can help create a sense of calm.
A quick conversation with a friend, a shared laugh with a colleague, or quality time with family can help foster connection and support emotional well-being.
Reading, gardening, listening to music, cooking, crafting, or spending time in nature are all examples of activities that can help replenish your energy and bring joy to your day.
Self-care doesn’t always require saying no to major commitments. Sometimes it looks like turning off notifications during dinner, taking your lunch break away from your desk, or protecting time for activities that help you recharge.
Many of us are kinder to others than we are to ourselves. Self-compassion involves responding to yourself with the same understanding and patience you would offer a friend during a difficult moment.
Even when we know self-care is important, it can be easy to place our own needs at the bottom of the list. Busy schedules, family responsibilities, work demands, and the belief that we need to “earn” rest can all make it difficult to prioritize ourselves.
If you’ve ever struggled with self-care, you’re certainly not alone. For many people, learning to make space for their own needs is an ongoing practice rather than a destination.
At Centre Wellness, we believe that well-being is about more than managing challenges. It’s also about creating opportunities to thrive.
Our team of psychologists, psychotherapists, and registered dietitian work collaboratively to support individuals in building healthier relationships with themselves, developing sustainable wellness habits, navigating life transitions, and enhancing overall quality of life.
Whether you’re looking to strengthen coping skills, improve emotional well-being, work through a challenge, or simply invest in your personal growth, support is available.
This International Self-Care Day, consider what caring for yourself might look like; not perfectly, but consistently. Sometimes the smallest acts of care can have the greatest impact over time.
Q: What counts as self-care?
A: Self-care can include anything that supports your physical, emotional, social, or psychological well-being. It often looks different for each person.
Q: How much time should self-care take?
A: Self-care does not need to take hours. Small, meaningful actions throughout the day can make a difference.
Q: Is therapy a form of self-care?
A: Many people view therapy as an important form of self-care because it creates dedicated space to focus on personal growth, emotional well-being, and life challenges.
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Riegal, B., Barbanelli, C., Stawnychy, M., Matus, A., & Hirschman, K. (2024). Does self-care improve coping or does coping improve self-care? A structural equation modeling study. Applied Nursing Research, 78. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.apnr.2024.151810
At Centre Wellness, we sometimes use AI tools to assist in content creation. All content is directed, reviewed, and edited by our professional team to ensure accuracy and relevance to your needs.